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Hello there and thank you for the wonderful complement! Did you know that reading for as little as six minutes can reduce stress by 60%? (x) Yes, stress is different from anxiety, but stress can also trigger and descend into an anxiety/panic attack. I’ve been in your shoes and I know that anxiety (and an existential crisis/breakdown) is absolutely no fun at all. I can’t really help you but I can give you some tips!! If you check out my FAQ, the last link on the left side of the page, you’ll find a few ways to get you out of your reading slump. [Examples: Read something small such as a novella, a short story, or even fanfiction about your favorite show!] As for your anxiety and that nauseous feeling you get while reading, take a deep breath, hold it for four seconds, then slowly exhale. Take as many cleansing breaths as you need to calm yourself down. Also maybe nibbling on some pretzels or drinking some water or tea while you read may help calm your anxious belly. If you find that these problems persist please do not hesitate to contact a doctor or someone who can help you cope with stress, anxiety and panic attacks. Asking for help isn’t something to be ashamed of either!! I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day!!
If I’m not reading a book then I’m taking photos of books and if I’m not taking photos of books I’m looking at photos of books and if I’m not looking at photos of books I’m thinking about books and if I’m not thinking about books then I’m dreaming about book and if I’m not dreaming about books I’m writing books and basically books because books, always.
things to do & see in nyc for under $30:
- museum of modern art
- nyc rocky horror picture show
- upright citizens brigade
- belvedere castle
- the metropolitan museum of art
- evolution store
- dylan’s candy bar
- strand book store
- hidden subway station
- see a burlesque show
- museum of the moving image
- babeland
- brooklyn flea market
- momofuku milk bar
- go to a hookah bar
- coney island
- go to a spoken word/poetry reading
- go see a free concert
- union square green market
- seen an independent film
- st. paul’s chapel
- see a show at the secret theater
- grand central station & the whispering gallery
- the pit improv
- videology bar & screening room
- the high line
- get tickets to a tv show taping
- central park zoo
- cooking show & comedians
- find a sample sale
- new york botanical garden
- guggenheim museum
- sony wonder technology lab
- american museum of natural history
- s’mac
- cipriani le specialita
- nbc studio tour
- the foot hall at the plaza hotel
- fao schwarz
- brooklyn heights promenade
- big gay ice cream
- forbidden planet
- $20 shows at lincoln center
- free weekly events in nyc
- jane austen dances
- nyc dumpling tour
- the city reliquary
- tea demonstration at urasenke chanoyu
- take a 40 minute power nap at a spa
- baconery
By Malinda Lo
Following up on my post last month, “Gay Without the Gay Angst: 12 Books About Gay/Bi/Queer Boys”, here is a list of 10 books about lesbian/bisexual/queer girls without a lot of coming-out angst.
If you’re looking for a complete lack of coming-out angst,...
Lesbian Themed Booklists
For your general perusal, these are all the current, completed niche booklists we have put together. If you know of any books that should be on one of these lists and isn’t, please let us know!
- Our Nineteen Bestselling Books & Short Stories of 2012
- Our Eleven Bestselling Books of 2011
- Free Lesbian Books Online
- Amish Lesbian Fiction
- Asexual Lesbians/ Asexual Women in Fiction
- Children’s Picture Books
- Lesbian Bodyguard Fiction
- Lesbian Christmas Fiction
- Depression in Lesbian Fiction
- Lesbian Fairytale Fiction
- Lesbian Historical Fiction
- Lesbian Knights in Fiction
- Lawyer Romances & Other Lesbian Lawyer Books
- Lesbian Librarians in Fiction and Nonfiction
- Non-Human Lesbians in Fantasy Fiction (excluding zombies, vampires & shapeshifters)
- Lesbians with Physical Disabilities
- Lesbian Pirate Fiction
- Lesbian Princesses in Fiction
- Lesbian Shapeshifter Fiction
- Lesbians in Space
- Lesbians in Sport
- Lesbian Steampunk Stories
- Lesbian Time Travel Fiction
- Lesbian Vampire Fiction
- Lesbian Young Adult Fiction
- …With A Non-Lesbian Main Character
- …By Country & USA State
- …Contemporary Fiction
- …Lesbian YA Fantasy & Science Fiction Books
- …Lesbian YA Historical Fiction
- Lesbian Zombie Fiction
- Transgender Young Adult Fiction
- Transgender Women in Lesbian Relationships in Fiction
- Yuri Manga Published in English
- Lesbian Webcomics & NSFW Webcomics
…also taking suggestions for future lists.
why are wlw books so angsty and deep all the time like where is my casual wlw romcom or my fantasy lesbians, space bis and trans princesses like not every wlw has some lost love in some town in the middle of nowhere
I live for posts like this, because there are soooo many good f/f books out there that don’t get the attention they deserve because of the way wlw are marginalized. So!
Here are some recs for casual/feel-good f/f representation! All links are to my reviews.
Good Enough to Eat - super cute lesbian vampire rom-com
Promises, Promises - parody of LotR/D&D starring three lesbians on a quest for magical stuff
Everything Leads to You - Hollywood f/f YA about a young set designer who falls for a girl she meets under mysterious circumstances
The Long Way to a Small Angry Planet - ensemble-cast “crew of a spaceship” story. Mostly just random adventures, includes a f/f couple who survive the book.
Roller Girl - contemporary f/f romance about trans woman who joins a roller derby team
Not fluffy, but the angst is SFF-stress rather than “living under homophobia/biphobia” stress:
Ascension - queer disabled ladies fighting Big Pharma in space–you wanted space bi’s, come get your space bi’s (actually, if you want more space bi’s also check out the anthology Fierce Family.)
Chameleon Moon - review is of an earlier edition and I hear the new one has even more great representation. Trans woman superhero with two female partners living in a dystopian city that’s on lockdown from the government after everyone develops mutant powers in response to a wonderdrug.
Not Your Sidekick - in the future, what happens when your parents are superheroes but you never developed powers? You intern for the baddie, of course! MC is bi and ends up in a f/f relationship, and the sequel will star her trans bestie.
Hope this helps. Feel free to browse my “lesbian books” tag for more recs (there are bi/pan girls in some of those recs, too.)
*coughalsoeverythingshiraglassmanwritescough* *coughsuperfuntimescough*
I mean, this is basically true – f/f fluff is kinda the cornerstone of my body of writing :P (Thanks!)
All I Want For Christmas by Clare Lydon - Fluffy wlw romantic comedy (I know it’s not really in season at the moment but it’s so cute)
Gay Pride and Prejudice by Kate Christie - What it says on the tin. Elizabeth Bennett is a lesbian and the haughty Caroline Bingley is the last woman she could ever be prevailed upon to love.
Escape from B-Movie Hell by M.T. McGuire - Silly British sci-fi with a lesbian protagonist
Heart Trouble by Jae - A doctor gets shocked by a defibrillator while saving a woman’s life in the ER. Now they have a soul bond!
Finding Ms Write by Jae & Jove Belle - Collection of short stories about women who love women and also love books.
The Wind City by Summer Wigmore - Urban fantasy drawing on Maori mythology. Protagonist describes herself as “at least 60% gay” and falls in love with a monster girl.
Sword of the Guardian by Merry Shannon - Bi princess and lesbian bodyguard fall in love.
The Case of the Good-for-Nothing Girlfriend by Mabel Maney - Parody detective story about a gang of five lesbians who solve crimes.
A Woman Scorned by Rachel Frank about an assassin who falls in love with a noblewoman (lesbian)
Beauty & Cruelty by Meredith Katz about the evil with falling in love with sleeping beauty (lesbian)
High & Mighty by S.S. Skye - a princess stuck in a tower who is decidely Not Amused about it (lesbian)
Humanity for Beginners by Faith Mudge - Two friends and a halfway house for lesbian werewolves (lesbian)
Hunting a Lady by Cari Z. and Caitlin Ricci - a woman who needs money goes to rescue a kidnapped lady for the reward (lesbian)
Lies & Reverie by Camilla Quinn - A shopkeeper’s daughter who loves to day dream, and the beautiful woman who runs the town (lesbian)
Love Rampage by Alex Powell - a girl in love with her best friend, and the unicorn who helps her (lesbian, trans)
Modern Serpents Talk Things Through by Jamie Brindle - a modern dragon who falls in love with the human who invades her cave (lesbian)
Prom and Other Hazards by Jamie Sullivan - super cute story about a girl, her best friend, and the prom (lesbian, bisexual)
Slaying Dragons by Sasha L. Miller - a frustrated mage, some dragons, and the lovely new partner she’s stuck with (lesbian)
The Broken Forest by Megan Derr - a Huntress, and the beautiful witch she meets dealing with a troublesome forest (lesbian, bisexual, trans)
The Mercenary by Annabelle Kitch - a peasant girl, the princess she loves, a quest to win her princess’s hand in marriage (lesbian)
The Persephone Star by Jamie Sullivan- a proper lady working in the post office, a notorious criminal set on revenge, and a bit of kidnapping (lesbian)
The Secret of Mermaid Cove by Megan Derr - an improper lady, an unwanted engagement, and an island full of secrets
Witch, Cat, and Cobb by J.K. Pendragon - a princess fleeing an arranged marriage, a witch, and a cat (lesbian, trans)
Zombies in the East End by Roxanne Dent - steampunk, zombies, and two tough ladies
California Skies by Kalya Bashe - bandits in the wild west, a hunt for jewels, stubborn people (bisexual, genderqueer)
Green Toes by Avery Flanders - gardens, a hint of magic shoes, and people falling in love (bisexual, genderqueer)
Gossamer Axe by Gael Baudin. It’s been a while since I’ve read it, but it’s fantasy. Basically one of the most epic quests to save a lover I’ve read, more enjoyable because it’s based on music and the magic thereof. It’s not in print, so it can be a little hard to get a hold of, but worth it.
Where were all y’all when I put Encanta onstage?
The many stages of reading slumps
Step 1: ‘I can’t be in another reading slump! I will tackle my TBR and emerge victorious. You’re not going to hold me back, brain.’
Step 2: *reads 50 pages of about 750 books* ‘NOOOOO!’
Step 3: *mumbles about reading slump*
*posts on blog about reading slump*
*tells family and friends about reading slump*
Step 4: ‘So the hundreds of books I own already aren’t working for me so I should definitely go to the bookstore and/or library to get more’
Step 5: ‘I know, I’ll re-read Harry Potter!’
Step 6: *puts on sad song and stares at books longingly* ‘I miss you…’
Step 7: *after what feels like centuries, reads 50 books in a week to make up for lost time*
Step 8: Repeat
So this happened at Subway the other day
- Me wearing my Pizza John shirt at subway:
- Sandwich Artist: Who's that guy?
- Me: Um... John Green.
- Sandwich Artist: I've heard that name before. Is he like running for president?
- Me: No.. He wrote some books. You've probably heard of The Fault In Our Stars.
- Sandwich Artist: oh yeah. That thing . Well he should run for president. I'd vote for him, since I take it from your shirt he's a pizza fan. I'm pro pizza.
Reminders for readers:
- It doesn’t matter how many books you read.
- It doesn’t matter how many books others read.
- Don’t worry too much about your reading goal.
- Don’t judge others on their preferences.
- Nobody likes book snobs.
- Don’t worry about how many books you own.
- Don’t force yourself to read books.
- You can put a book down if you aren’t enjoying it.
- Life’s too short to read books you don’t like.
- You are allowed to reread books as many times as you want.
- Ebooks are books and they’re great.
- Audio books are books and they’re great.
- Physical books are great too.
- You are still valid. You are still a reader. It literally doesn’t matter how or what you read.
- Don’t worry about what everyone else is reading.
- Don’t worry about other opinions.
- Read what you want.
My hobbies include
- Thinking about books
- Reading books
- Talking about books
- Looking at books
